Unpopular opinion: I didn’t want the house in my divorce. Even after pouring over $200,000 into upgrades — every staircase, every fence, every tree I cut down, every project I managed — I chose to let it go. Because what people don’t see behind the “dream home” is the weight of responsibility I carried. I was the one who paid for the projects. I was the one who managed contractors. I was the one mowing the lawn, painting the fences, cutting down shrubs, hauling branches, replanting hydrangeas, a